What is Acceptance? It is when you accept something you have, some wrong, some problem or some bad habit. So, does it make a difference in our lives or not? Is it necessary to accept things which we know in ourselves, but are reluctant to accept?
TRULY….YESSSS! It is necessary for all the benefits you need in life, to accept those things in yourselves.
Let’s take an example…
What’s the most important thing, we strive for all the years of our life? Is it Wealth? Or Is it Position? Or Is it Power?
NO… The thing we strive for, in all of our life is Happiness; A Happy and Successful Life.
STILL THINKING!!!!
Where the Acceptance comes in… See This
You are a Lazy Worker and Your BOSS is always annoyed of your Laziness. But you don’t accept this fact, even at-least for yourself; you don’t accept that you can’t do things on time.
So, what can Acceptance do?
Acceptance can do a Wonder, you won’t believe i.e. when you accept the fact that you are lazy, at-least to yourself, you will try finding out a method that can do your work fast leading you to submitting your Jobs on-Time. You will try to cope up with the habit and the wonder starts happening, when your acceptance makes you realize that you are a Lazy Person and should do something to save your respect.
George R. R. Martin said "Once you’ve accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you."
Let’s take it to another angle.
About the time people get older, they start remembering the days of their joys, when they were young and energetic. This makes them compare their Old Age with Young Age and here is where Discontentment begins. They fix their focus on what they don’t have now; forgetting what is their present status. Here they fail to realize that every stage of life has its own joys and hardships. Like when you were young, you can work a lot, you can earn money, you can purchase things you want. But you had to work hard, sometimes killing your family time for better prospects, you had to travel a lot, you have less exposure, you have less experience & conscience. And now that you are Old, you don’t have to Work Hard, You Don’t have to earn money by killing your family time, even you don’t have to travel a lot because you already had enough, resulting in great exposure, experience & conscience of things. You can earn great respect by training your younger ones through your exposure & good conscience. You can enjoy chilling at home; doing things you couldn’t, due to your much busy routine in Young Age. You can travel for enjoyment, not for work.
J.K. Rowling once said that Understanding is the first step to acceptance, and only with acceptance can there be recovery.
So, it is how ACCEPTANCE is important in your life. It solves all the problems, mysteries and errands of your life, by simply saying to yourself that YES, I have this and I should’ve resolve this and if couldn’t, should look to other beauties of life which cancels or at-least lessens the impact of that PROBLEM in my Life.
SO, the next time you are accused of Laziness or You have some Health Issues or You got older and thinking of Days of Joys or Facing any other impact of your bad habits or going through some major set back; Do Accept the Facts and See the wonders that were never happened.
STAY PUT, STAY THROUGH, STAY BLESSED
